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Nothing like a well trussed up City by to start the morning in Ms Tytania’s studio…


Archives: Minimalist Shibari Suspension

I found these pictures, from a Japanese rope suspension performance I did in London a few years ago. They come from a video that I should edit sometime, but in the meantime, enjoy the stills.

 


2011, Ms Tytania’s review

With the recession taking hold of London, 2011 has been a bumpy ride, but very exciting because new “problems” also translate as “new opportunities” and I am a Mistress of reinvention, never happy to stay too long in the same routine. Developing The Urban Chick Supremacy Cell – UC-SC Project has been the most exciting part of it. It’s given me the opportunity to get out o the BDSM STudio and interact more with other creative professionals like photographers and video makers. This is marvelous, because I have a background in art, specifically video & photography, and to use these talents to develop my ides of what kink and BDSM mean to me has been a wonderful opportunity for self-expression.

I enjoyed Double Domme sessions with a delightful new Mistress, Maitresse Dalida, a personal friend whom I’ve adivised and also learnt from. We expect many more soirees of joint bitchery and dominance in 2012.

I filmed with Ms Slide and Femme Fatale Films. Again, I am looking forward to collaborating with many other Mistresses and friends.

Delved deeply and joyfully in the delights of heavy rubber bondage sessions, and eplored the heady pleasures of N2o & poppers both in rubber sessions and as part of my shibari session. I discovered tht Nitrous & suspnsion go very well together!

I did so many strapon sessions, I’ve forgotten how many. And here is a toast for many, many more, because I truly enjoy pegging boys and I’m at my happiest when I’m strutting my stuff with a cock sticking out of my otherwise ladylike crotch.

I threw two Strapon & Strapon, bi-boy CFNM Plus parties. A huge success and such a wonderful social occasion for myself, my fellow Mistreses & friends, who took part with rampant gusto. There will be more soggy biscuit competitions, more cake-sitting and more boy on boy puppetry! Stay tuned for the date & time  of the next party, that’s coming very soon.

Smaller forced-bi & cuckolding scenes were also a true highlight of 2011 in my Studio & Boudoir. A form of rotic dominance I truly enjoy.

I also met some wonderful personal playthings and kinky lovers in 2011. So the fun seemed to never end, at least some weeks. Some boys, obviously, are luckier than others!

 

Some new developments for 2012

Well, January will see me putting my tribute up, for the first time in 8 years. More details here.

I will also be engineering real time, UC-SC style sessions for those who keep asking if they can be rough handled by the fearsome Urban Chicks… I’ve designed UNDERGROUND just for you, male scum, in a suitably imposing prison cell… here is your chance to be interrrogated, restrained, held hostage, water boarded, pegged and sounded for the Femdom Revolution. The Urban Chick is, after all, my feistier, more unpredictable incarnation. These sessions will be betwen 2 – 3 hour long, and will take place at Murder Mile Studios‘ amazing prison cell room. Boxing, mixed wrestling and shibari also possible there.

The TV & Sissy Boudoir will see much more action, having proved to be such a success as an alternative to the playroom area in my Canary Wharf studio. I’m already planning a bondage & sissification photoshoot for the new year!

And lastly, my members’ site, The Urban Chick Supremacy Cell – UC-SC, will continue bringing down the patriarchy and making those smug, small-dicked City boys pay for the mess that we all are in… Femdom style.


Filming for Femme Fatale Films

Last tuesday, after a long summer of busy postponing and rescheduling, I finally travelled to South London to film at Red Spot Studio, a dedicated Femdom film & photography studio. Femme Fatale Films and Woman Worship (of Club Pedestal Fame) use this stylish venue, with its three floors of atmospheric settings, to bring Female Supremacy to reality on your screen. Now, Ms Tytania and The Urban Chick Supremacy Cell can count themselves among an illustrious line of Mistresses and dominant women who have had their  passion and style recorded for posterity.

My scenes for Mistress Eleise de Lacy‘s Femme Fatale Films will be available on her members’ site soon. But after Ms Tytania indulged her whims on Severin, that incorregible, relentlesss lut, it wa time for the UC-SC to storm the place and liberate it of patriarchal oppression. Taking over that most emblematic of male privilege, the office, the Woman Guerilla held a CEO hostage and subjected it to total surrender. No corporate establishment, no smug City boy is exempt of paying the Revolutionary Femdom  Tax by the means of Total Rectal Repossesion.

Video clips & photos coming soon to the UC-SC‘s Members’ Site.


Boy on Boy Puppetry: Pull the cock, not the strings

New tickets deadline: October 27th.

When I ask my boys to amuse me by sucking each other off, or being bummed by one of them or being part of a spit roast scene where I also get to use my dommely cock, I love referring to it as “Boy on Boy Puppetry”. It’s puppetry of the penis, but not as we know it. I hold and direct my male puppets not by strings, but by their cocks. I hold and pull their eager dicks, literal or metaphorically speaking, so they do as Mistress commands.

I also like to share my love of the strapon with my Mistress friends: we all love sharing a boy for a good spit roast. In an ideal world, I wouldn’t be seen without my strapon dildo and all men would be anally trained to take it and to enjoy it, from a young age.

Cocks, specially other men’s cocks, hold such a powerful pull in a submissive man’s imaginary. It’s the ultimate taboo, the place where his masculinity is surrendered, his submission put to the final test. To engage sexually with other boys for Mistress, is a to show that I have the power to wipe out their male privilege and pretensions.

And yet, the boys are gagging for cock, dying to be put in their pen for the ladies’ amusement. To be nothing but a complying, tail wagging puppy, a pet-like accessory, a puppet on a string for a dominant woman. To have a man’s cock is to have he man at your will: naked, erect, horny, surrounded by demanding dommes and maybe in the presence of other boys too, with its promise of danger and unspoken temptations.

This is what my Parties are about: to have fun in the company of my friends, while taking full advantage of male weaknesses. Being strong, seductive and persuasive till they have no choice but do as told with their tiny, but very eager, dicks. It’s ultimately what they want. I know it, and I know how to use it, even abuse it.

The next party will be on Friday, October 28th. Have a look at my past, present and future parties, here:

Boy on Boy Fun sessions

My Strapon, CFNM, Bi Boy Parties


Branding the male – pork crackling?

During a short break in Spain last week, I escaped the routine of family duties and chores to retreat in Mistress Natalie’s superb Studio Wanda, in Bilbao (Spain). She had a fully frillied, willing sub ready in the dungeon for my entertainment, so I spent two hours practising some rope bondage with him. She had asked me to prepare him, trussed up and immobilized in inescapable shibari bondage, because she was planning on branding him with a hot iron.

I’m not the one to disappoint a friend. So I got myself down to work and thought, why not crucify the slave? I tied him up with hemp rope to a thick bamboo rod, and then suspended him until he was just about touching the floor with his toes. Thus prepared, I called Mistress Natalie.

“I don’t want you to utter the smallest sound, not a word, not  asigh, or you won’t be allowed to cum”, I warned him.

The red hot iron with Mistress Natalie’s initials on it crackled and sizzled as it burnt the skin. A faint cloud of smoke and a pungent, unmistakable smell rose: pork crackling! We both laughed, while he bit his lip to keep mum. As I untied him, the fresh branding revealed itself gradually, redder and redder on his buttock. Pork crackling indeed!

You can view the  complete photoshoot here: Branding at Studio Wanda.


CFNM, WS, Strapon Plus: FAQ and other info

This blog is open. Please feel free to ask me anything about the party by posting a reply.THE VENUE

The venue is a luxury apartment in London’s Zone 1, within the Circle Line. The exact address will be given on payment. The venue is discreet, very clean, fully serviced, with a bar and maids in attendance. Towels, condoms,  lubricant and gloves will be provided.

PAYMENT AND DEADLINE

No, you can’t pay in hand or on the day. Deadline for paying for your ticket is the day before the Slutathon’s date.

SECURE, DISCREET PAYMENT 

We use a  discreet, completely anonymous bank account you can pay into it to purchase your ticket. Please ask us in an email to find out more. This is a completely vanilla business account and nothing obvious will appear on your bank statement.

PRIVACY AND DISCRETION

First questions first: Yes, you can wear a mask, but nothing else, at the party.

I’ve received enquiries from subs who are hesitant about attending because they fear that their anonymity will not be respected. I know that words and promises are easy to make, but as a successful and well regarded Pro-Domme with 9 years experience, I can only insist in my guarantee of total discretion and my commitment to my subs, lady friends’, and my own privacy.

No, we won’t take pictures or film the event. We aren’t interested in your life outside of the party.  We are four professional and/or lifestyle Dommes, trying to have fun and to give subs who don’t go out and about the BDSM scene, the opportunity to interact with others. We know that our clients are not gregarious kinksters and aren’t open about their sexual desires. We know taht some of them have delicate jobs and personal circumstances.

We are lifestyle kinksters and are sadly aware of the stigma against kink and BDSM. WE know that most of our clients feel vulnerable due to their sexual preferences. WE hate society’s sexual hypocrisy, but we are a safe, non-judgemental haven for those looking to explore their kinks safely and in the company of other, non-judgemental like-minded people and Mistresses. For this reason, Ms Tytania’s  Strapon, WS & CFNM Plus Party is a friendly place for them to explore group BDSM without shame, guilt of fear. Clothes and belongings will be kept safe and mobile phones or cameras will not be allowed in the premises.

ETIQUETTE AND PROTOCOL

This is Femdom event. We expect all subs in attendance to be clean, presentable, polite and well behaved towards Mistresses and other subs. We expect the regard and respect due to all Mistresses ina  Femdom environment, and to respect their decisions and heir own playspace: don’t expect all Mistresses to be all over you at all times. This is NOT a private, ‘one sub only’ session. Mingle and be friendly to the other male subs. We want a friendly and supportive environment. Drunkness or being unruly and under the influence of drugs will not be tolerated, although N20 and Poppers will be available. Be outgoing, don’t hide in a corner and if you feel too shy, please tell a Mistress. Wallflowers will be gently, but dominantly deflowered of their shyness!

Some subs ask me if they can bring the Mistresses in attendance a small present. You may bring a bottle for the ladies, if you want to, but it’s not mandatory.

Please state your limits and preferences as clearly as possible, as well as activities that you “might try if pushed/encouraged.”

I reserve the right to refuse entrance or expel any guest who doens’t abide by these simple, common sense rules, or who is a nuisance to Mistresses or to his fellow subs.

REFUNDS

There will be NO refund on cancellation, unless we cancel the party, in which case, it will be our responsibility to refund you. The nature of the Forced-Bi, CFNM, Watersports, Strapon Plus party is clear to those with some experience in BDSM. If, once at the party, you decide to leave of your own accord; if you cancel after purchasing your ticket, or if you are asked to leave by the Mistresses due to not complying to our rules and etiquette, we will not refund your fee.

We won’t refund your cash if you have to cancel, but we are happy to keep the fee for a future party. If we have to cancel or reschedule a party, we will offer a refund or a rollover to the next Slutathon.

CLEANLINESS & HYGIENE

We have written a whole blog entry to this important issue. Read more HERE.

MISTRESSES IN ATTENDANCE

The list can be found on this entry, and will be updated as we receive confirmation: Mistresses Attending.

“BUT I DON’T ENJOY ALL THE ACTIVITIES ON YOUR LIST!”

We assume that some subs won’t be into every single activity and games. Your limits will be respected if you email us details in advance. Read more here: Limits and Hard Limits. There will be plenty of meat to satisfy the ladies’s hunger for kink.


CFNM - Watersports – Golden Showers – Strapon – Phalic Women – bumboys – Forced bi – Boy on Boy Puppetry – Clothed Females – Naked Males – Spit Roast

Shibari Tutorial

I am still offering Shibari and rope bondage / suspension tutorials, specially for women who are curious about it. It’s still such a male-centred activity!

Few things excite me more than being contacted by a dominant lady who wants to learn how to use rope to tie men up. I find the skills required are an awesome weapon for us, ladies, who tend to be smaller than men. When I tell submissve me that yes, I can tie them up inescapably, or suspend them upside down regardless of their bulk or ability, they have to expereince it in themselves to believe it.

Rope bondage is a question of brain and skills, not brawn or muscles. That’s why it’s so suited for women, it doens’t need physical force, but dexterity and technique. That’s why we can do it in high heels and rubber!

I’m away till the 11th, but will be thinking of the Shibari tutorial I’m preparing on my return, with a lady who contacted me form abroad and who will be visiting London just to learn “the ropes”. I can’t wait! and neither can my chosen rope bunny for the day, what else would a subbie boy desire, than two ladies busy trussing him up?


Photo gallery: Fred Perry inspired latex dress

In a nod to gay fetish subculture, Ms Tytania pays homage to the skinhead look in a Fred Perry inspired latex dress, Doc Martens boots and a chelsea haircut. Skynbirds get their own, well deserved fetish niche, in shiny rubber and patent leather. Red, of course.


Wham! Oww! Kapow! Oouch!

Ms Tytania now offers sparring, punching, kicking and ball-busting sessions in full boxing gear. Despite being only 5′ 4″ barefoot, she can pack a mean punch.

Human punchbags now being auditioned for my training and amusement. Do you have what it takes to be my sparring specimen?

Toothguard recommended, but no cod pieces please :)

 


Leather body bag & suspension bondage

I had only used my leather body bag once. it’s more like a full body restraint jacket, with arms and buckled straps form the neck to the ankles. Combined with a gas mask and breathing restriction, it made for a fabulous little bit of equipment. I also find that a spot of N20 at the right moment, takes the rope suspension experience to… aherm! new heights.

It was the first time that the male specimen was fully suspended with rope, something surprising for a veteran, but as I’ve noticed time and time again, there aren’t so many Mistresses who practice suspension Shibari in UK. Or anywhere else, as far as I’m aware. We are indeed a select circle!


Upside down suspension

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… and all done with nothing but rope. the specimen’s head is jut one inch from the floor, and not touching. It all started with a good old fashioned hogtie, that puts all the boys in their rightful place. But from then on, the sky was the only limit…

If you like rope an suspension, you can go to Ms Tytania’s Japanese Rope bondage website.

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Rubber bondage session

Away with the rubber fairies, in a mellow cloud of N20 & rubber wings…


Submission in Red


Red patent leather DM Boots; red rope for shibari;  red toenails… Suspensions and submission in red!


Shibari galleries

Ms Tytania and a dominant friend enjoy an eveneing in, tying up a male slave in rope. Hogties, humilliation and a shibari feast ensues!


Shibari galleries

Japanese rope bondage and suspension… and shiny rubber!


Shibari Galleries

After hogtying my subject on the floor, I had to indulge in a spot of facesitting. It didn’t take much to persuade me that rope suspension was the next step towards his total helplessness and immobilization. Shibari does the job every single time!


More fetish postcards from Bilbao

Some old pictures form a double Domme session with Mistress Natalie last January: shibari, rope bondage, suspension and cock teasing. The real meaning of “tie and tease” in Ms Tytania’s world! What better way to tease a slave, than immobilizing him by suspending him with rope?


The British Mistress abroad…

so, back at home in Bilbao this week for a short spring break and what better way to hide form the blazing sun and fast tanning crowds, than in the depths of Studio Wanda. I had time to help Mistress Natalie during a long internment session, had lunch with her and hassle her prisoner for the day. I got to shave his arse, crack and balls, and indulge in a spot of strapon fucking in a sling. Leather slings, as visitors to my own studio in docklands cantestify, are amzingly playful and versatile pieces of equipment and ideal for bumming those stubborn arse sluts without tiring myself, with all that see-saw back and forth. Not to mention that once tied up to it, there is nowhere for them to go. Not that they’d want to go anywhere else, I can assure you.

Sessionsin London will resume on May 12th.


Pre-Strapon Party excitement!

It was my first love. When I was very young and didn’t know about BDSM or indeed, kink, i still had a recurring sexual fantasy: I dreamed of taking a man with a strapon dildo. I didn’t know this was possible. I’d seen strapons on mainstream, girl-on-girl porn, and seeing the device made me think “wow, imaging having one of those and using it on a bloke”. I had to go for a lie in, but when I came back to my innnocent senses, i concluded that no straight man would ever let me do that to him.

How wring I was! Fast forward a few years, and I was bumming boys left, right and centre (ok, not literally, but you get my drift). In fact, it was the one activity that helped me discover on the internet, over 10 years ago.

It’s still one of my biggest eprsonal fetishes. Contrary to popular belief, familairity and normalization haven’t diminished my excitement.

And I’m very excited: I’m helping my good friend Ms Theda Vamp, organize a private strapon party this saturday, April 30th. Kate & Wills won’t have a more joyous wedding night that us, that’s for sure. I go to lot of parties, I do lots of kinky stuff not only professionally, but as part of my extra-curricular interests. But the prospect of ten gorgeous women, and twenty hand picked men joined by their love of female to male sodomy, sends warm waves of pleasure all over me. As will the reality.

I have seldcted for the event, and form my own dildocratic Arsenal:

1 x 5″ black silicon dildo

1 x 7″ black silicon dildo, ribbed.

1 x 9 inch, flesh coloured, Doc Johnson’s Vac-U-Loc dildo.

1 x 9 ” long, 1″ thin and ribbed, pink + gold glitter silicon dildo form Sh! (good for probing beginners).

1 x ejaculating dildo, about 8″ long, and thick. Yes, I said ejaculating dildo.

A “Shenis”, or hollow penis that a lady can use to piss through.

1 x vac-u-loc black leather strapon

1 x normal black leather strapon.

Condoms, gloves and lube will be provided by the hosteses, including yours truly. Two maids will be in attendance, and there will be a bar and nibbles to re-energize those grinding hips.

There will also be boy on boy entertainment, generously offered by the guest boys. who obviously, wouldn’t feel more grateful and want to repay somehow.


Can the real Ms Tytania please stand up?

Now, I’m not in the habit of kissing and telling and I think that stuff between a Mistress and a sub should stay private. But today’s exchange on sms form (and here is the reason why I normally refuse to engage in it), deserves exposing and sharing with the blogosphere, for sheer idiocy. A good example of the lunacy that we Mistresses are exposed to on a regular basis, and we so often moan about.

I booked an appointment with a new sub, some time next week at 3.30. I told him that we might have to change times slightly as I share the rubber studio in Camden and it may be in use right then. He agrees to wait till I text back to confirm time availability. I am then asked by the studio owner if we can change the appointment to 2.30.

So I text the sub asking him if he would mind coming at 2.30 instead. His reply:

Rubber Guy: Are you teasing me?

Me: No, please don’t misunderstand me. I share the Camden studio. I’m trying not to clash with the other person’s appointment. I hope you understand!

Rubber Guy: Yes I understand. Are you the same Ms T that posts on IC?

Me: Yes, Ms Tytania. We spoke on the phone earlier.

Rubber guy: Good. I’ve admired your photographs for ages!

At this point, I am the one who fears is being taken for a ride, so I’m careful and polite:

Me: Thank you. Please rest assured that I’m not leading you on, simply having trouble booking the studio. Is monday @ 2.30 possible? I don’t want to rush the session.

Rubber Guy: you are not Ms T!

Me: I am, and I’m trying to change the time of an appointment next monday. Do I have the right number? Is your name Xyz?

Rubber Guy: yes, but you are not quite as eloquent as Ms T.

Me: How eloquent do you expect anyone to be on a sms? And who else do you think would know details of our talk earlier? Please call me to discuss session time. Thank you.

Rubber Guy: Sorry I do not understand.

I take a deep breath and reply:

Me: Did you book a session with me this afternoon, to take place on monday @3.30?

Rubber Guy: Yes I did! And I will honour that agreement.

Me: I asked you if we cld meet @2.30 instead, to avoid overlapping with the other studio user, and to have plenty of time.

Rubber Guy: But I remember you as a sharp cookie

At this point, I facepalm. From the heart.

Tytania “Sharp Cookie” Gonzales: Dear Sub Xyz: I am trying to conduct my business professionally, not showing off or being clever.

Rubber Guy: Why?

I have no time to reply before he texts me again:

Rubber Guy: I’m sorry, i will have to cancel. I do not think you are Ms T.

Tytania “Sharp Cookie” Gonzales:: Whose number do you think this is? It’s on my website. Email me if you don’t believe me.

Rubber Guy: Listen to yourself.

Stage note: at this point the Greek Chorus of the Blogosphere facepalm at unison.

Rubber Guy: Where was the famous CCK? (Note: I think he is referring to the now defunct scene coffee shop in Covent Garden, “Coffee, Cake & Kink”)

Tytania “Sharp Cookie” Gonzales: memo me on my IC profile if you want to check it’s Ms Tytania you are talking to. Up to you.

The Greek Chorus of the Blogosphere rap: Now, can the real Ms Tytania please stand up?

Curtain falls. End of Act One.


Behold! My beautiful new website

All updated, all improved, new look and ultra elegant new website in WordPress. Ms Tytania’s new website.