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A crawl-in closet cage in my Boudoir

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Been a bratty boy? Has Mistress lost patience with you? You need some isolation away time, caged in my closet cage under the clothes rack!

Inbuilt in one of my clothes and accessories wardrobes, there is a little, dark but surprisingly roomy, closet to hide bad sluts in. so while I’m doing my toilette, changing clothes, putting my rubber or my fully seamed stockings on… my sluts are frustratingly handcuffed, bundled and incarcerated in my crawl-in closet cage. Fancy an hour or two to calmly meditate and reflect on your many slutty sins? Or perhaps you’ve displeased me and you need to be discarded, out away like unwanted shoes? I have a place just for you…

More details on my caging and isolation sessions page.

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OVERNIGHT AND EXTENDED SESSIONS

Due to an enormous amount of enquiries, I’ve decided to offer some pilot overnight sessions. An overnight session starts in the evening, around 7 pm (exact time to be agreed on), and lasts until 10 am the morning after.An overnight session normally starts at 7 pm and finishes at 10 am, with a 7am sharp waking up call to be my toy! 15 hours at my beck and call. Tribute can be found in my contact page.

 

I’m also experimenting with extended, daytime, 6 hours sessions. You can check in at Tytania Towers from 10 am till 12pm, amuse me, serve me, be my toy and victim, my human guinea pig… and be released just in time for dinner… refreshed after a whole day in a world that only exists in your fantasies… and in my Canary Wharf Studio. Tribute in my contact page too.

 

Favourite activities for these sessions can include, but are not limited to: bondage, captivity, domestic servitude, entertaining my visiting dominant friends, enforced punishment and corporal punishment, interrogation; hypnotism practice; feminisation; enforced feminist indoctrination; caging; role play in many forms; and anything your saturated submissive mind and her wicked imagination can concoct. Normally, she will retire no later than midnight.  A £200 deposit is required. Email me to find out more: begandgrovel@mstytania.net

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THE SLUT BED OF SHAME

Inaugural party: 13th October 2016 .

GUEST MISTRESSES: Ms Tytania, Goddess Cleo, Mistress Absolute, Mistress Darcy, Mistress Rebecca Raynor and Lady Sara Borgia.

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Our first comeback party will take place in collaboration with the fabulous Domina Parties. Two of London’s dedicated multi-Mistress party organisers, join forces to bring you an event of exceptional sluttery: VIOLATE! and The Slut Bed Of Shame, simultaneously and under the same roof. Check Domina Parties for details and read below to find out how the Slut Bed Of Shame works its slutty magic:

THE SLUT BED OF SHAME! Such an evocative name! How does it work?

Ms Tytania’s Slut Bed Of Shame – the perfect, fool proof Femdom recipe for this favourite variation on the Forced-Bi theme. What started as a side show at The Grand Slutathon, her legendary Multi Mistress London parties that focused on forced-bi, CFNM and Strapon action, became an event in its own right due to its immense popularity among men who identify as straight, alpha types, but who fantasise about indulging in cock worship and boy on boy action. The Slut Bed Of Shame, as its name suggests, is quite simply, a group of horny boy whores on a large bed.

The party starts at 4pm. The boys will be performing in 2 hour shifts. They can choose to attend at 4 or at 6 pm, and be dismissed 2 hours later, to be replaced by new, fresh but rampant sluts.

The tribute to attend the Slut Bed Of Shame is £300. Email Ms Tytania to book your place.

But how does Ms Tytania make this such a compelling party? and will it be right party for you, male specimen? Here is her recipe:

To make a Slut Bed of Shame you will need:

  • 8 sluts, naked
  • 1 – 2 Domestic boy or sissy maid
  • 4 Mistresses
  • 1 large, strong bed where sluts can writhe, rub and also, be tied at the ladies’ discretion.
  • Atmospheric light
  • Romantic music (optional)
  • Lashes of Prossecco

PREPARATION

Find a luxury boudoir in central London and invite your dominant girlfriends round for the afternoon. Preferably, of the kind who love to watch men perform boy on boy action for their viewing pleasure.

Bring a domestic slave, sissy maid or other type of quality service-oriented submissive specimen loaded with a crate or two of prossecco. Direct them to their corner to serve the ladies and tidy up the inevitable mess.

Summon the sluts and instruct them to strip for the ladies’ assessment and (dis)approval.

Command the sluts onto the Slut Bed Of Shame and order them to enjoy each other with their mouths and arses. Make them mingle and couple up in slurpy 69’s; tie some of them up and turn them into The people’s Whore; force them to roll on the bed en masse, rubbing against each other in a chaotic, sweaty, mass of erect male bodies; direct them how to please each other with their hand s and mouths, and ask for feedback and punctuation. A clipboard and pen is always a nice touch.

Drizzle them with baby oil and watch them wriggle, writhe and moan as they suck and stroke hard cock.

Demand to impress the ladies with an ornamental tableaux, a fountain of bukakke.

Play the Soggy Biscuit game and punish the last to cum with a man juice covered biscuit for his tea.

If there is a suitable bathroom in the venue, send the boys to lather and shower with each other. I’m specially fond of a good wet boy on boy show.

Punish slackers and do-me subs with a wank ban and watch them implode.

Finish by asking the by now exhausted, but frustratingly horny cock-hungry whores, to suck each other to completion or demonstrate their wanking skills ( many so called straight men are good at the former, and all are excellent at the latter).

Serve very hot and best enjoyed by the ladies with a glass of two of cold prossecco.


Ms Tytania’s Studio Open Days

CHECK ALL DATES IN OUR CALENDAR

Come to Ms Tytania’s Studio Open Days and offer yourself as subservient specimen to the Gynocracy.

Guest Mistresses:

September 22nd – Goddess  Cleo, superb London Domina and fetish event promoter, and her protegee, young Mistress Ms Hayley Bond.

In addition to them, traditional Disciplinarian  Ms Rebekka Raynor will soon confirm her availability to grace the Department with her uncompromising domination style.

Coming soon: training lessons with my protegee, London courtesan and budding Mistress, Carla James. Keep an eye on my calendar for her training days and apply to be our practice bunny.

DISCLAIMER: This is NOT a session on the cheap! This is a chance to meet some lifestyle and professional dominant ladies in a BDSM studio and interact with them in kink play, not a one-to-one or a multi Mistress session, so don’t a one-to-one appointment. However, if you love being in the company of dominant ladies with wicked minds and be practiced on as a submission bunny, The Department For The Ladies’ Well-Being is a fun informal set up for D/s lovers.

Ms Tytania often receives visits from her dominant and vanilla girlfriends in her Femdom household. She loves organising tea and prossecco afternoons to catch up on all the latest scene gossip but also, to introduce her vanilla girlfriends into Femdom. She calls it The Department For The Ladies’ Well-Being: where women gather to enforce Full Female Supremacy in an informal style.

Now you can pop by for an insight into the Department and her kinky social lifestyle while she entertains her female guests with human guinea pigs like you, who will be subjected to their dominance. This is an informal gathering and you will be used at the ladies’ discretion. They’ll play with you when and if they please, but don’t expect them to be idle. Your hard limits will however be always respected.

Expect bondage, verbal humiliation, domestic service, strapon worship, cages and captivity and much, much banter from the ladies. But be aware that how much attention we give you, is at the ladies’ discretion.

CAGE AND CAPTIVITY FETISHISTS! We specially recommend it to those who enjoy PROLONGED, solitary captivity – be locked in a cage in a corner of the studio while we Dommes go about our business. Or you can book a 1-3-1 captivity & caging session. Email for details. CAGING & ISOLATION SESSIONS.

SO WHO WILL BE IN ATTENDANCE?

Many of my Dominant friends from London and those visiting the city, from well established professional mistresses, to lifestylers and my many curious vanilla girlfriends. This is a real life experience where you will get to be in the company of a number of Dommes and lifestyle-curious women.

Tribute for the ladies: £60 per hour with a minimum of 1 hour and maximum 3 hours visit, inside an envelope.

If you would like to attend one of these informal Femdom afternoons, you can book in advance or call her before 3 pm on the day and ask for the honour of serving and amusing Ms Tytania and her friends.

Pop in after work and leave the big bad real world behind in a real Femdom environment!

NEXT DATES

Check all 2016 Open Days in the Open Studio Calendar or by clicking on the picture below.

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In my East London studio: where traditional Femdom meets modern day female supremacy.


The Grand Slutathon Forced-Bi & Pegging Party

The Grand Slutathon is taking a break for while. Stay tuned to this page.

 

Email Ms Tytania to book your place: begandgrovel@mstytania.net

The Grand Slutathon, Ms Tytania’s multi-Mistress, multi-kink party is backAll boys whores, submissive men and other assorted Mistress worshippers, will be even happier to be in the presence of some of London’s finest Dommes: a bouquet of beauties wielding powerful strapons.

The loin-grinding pegging action on the part of the ladies, will warm up the first part of party. Over tea & crumpets, the guest ladies will plunder the depths of their boy whores, and get them ready for the Slut Bed of Shame.

The Slut Bed of Shame (in a dimly lit boudoir!) will be the highlight of the evening and take place of honour in a darkened boudoir… we love to see our boys wriggling like sweaty worms on heat, getting entangled into each other and hungry for man cock…

Why a new set up? Will it work for me? Find out more here…

Tribute: 

Slut Bed Of Shame: From 5 – 7pm. £200 for a 2 hour roll in the Slut Bed of Shame (tea party not included).

 

HOW DO I GET IN? EMAIL MS TYTANIA NOW: begandgrovel@mstytania.net

SO WHAT WILL HAPPEN, WHEN, AND HOW?

Selected by our Mistresses, the sluts marked as Cock Hungry Whores, will be singled out for the Mistresses’ entertainment and the Slut Bed of Shame will commence:

The Grand Slutathon Slut Bed of Shame and Slutathon Games (click on the link to read what happened at previous parties). After the tea party – Tea, Crumpets and Pegging!, our cock hungry sluts will be herded into the SlutBed of Shame, an atmospheric, dimly lit boudoir, where they will enjoy the delights of boy on boy sucking action, for the Mistresses’ viewing pleasure.

SO HERE IS A FRESH, NEW SLUTATHON FOR ALL FEMDOM DEVOTEES!

AND OMG, YOU CAN STILL SUCK COCK FOR THE LADIES’ VIEWING PLEASURE!

Here are some of our past and future regulars: The Mistresses.

We are unique. We do love our vigorous, sweaty buggering of boys! (Read if you don’t believe us)

Designed to meet like minded sluts who can rarely indulge in these exquisite, choral pleasures, under the encouraging and sometimes, coercing eye and words of four highly reputed london MistressesBut to also allow for shy, maybe not cock hungry boys, we also welcome Femdom devotees at our Femdom Tea party.

I know what you are all thinking at the minute: Slutty, Strapon, Forced-Bi, filthy parties are two a penny these days. They seem to be sprouting all over London and beyond, like an outbreak of juvenile acne. So, you must be asking yourself, what is it about The Grand Slutathon to set it apart form its imitators and wannabes?

CLICK HERE FOR  MORE FUN FACTS AND MORE TITILLATING INFO ABOUT THE GRAND SLUTATHON

STOP PRESS!

The Grand Slutathon is a private, discreet party. I DON’T film nor photograph it. I don’t keep any other information than your email address and mobile number. I offer these parties in the understanding that my guests expect safety, anonymity and discretion in an empathic, non-threatening,  fun environment.

If I’d want to film, I have my own professional film crew to produce high end, top quality BDSM videos. I’m not going to sell my soul for an hour of grainy, amateur footage. It’s YOU I expect to milk dry, not the Slutathon, you cock whores 🙂

My parties are, first and foremost, for my enjoyment and pleasure, my Mistress friends and my guest sluts.

I am an accountable Mistress, you’ll pay me into my business bank account, meaning that you know where you can find me. Whilst I’m not interested in your personal life outside our play time, I am happy to let my clients know who I am. They are giving me enormous trust.

So… what happens at the Slutathon, stays there. Although we love reading your gushing blogs, tweets and other testimonials 

Talent casting

I receive many applications to attend the party, but this is not a first come, first, erm, cums basis! I offer a well catered party at a reputable, clean, discreet venue. I screen my guests to ensure we only invite sluts who show a modicum of good manners and social skills, are articulate and eager without being competitive with other subs. The Grand Slutathon is friendly, non-threatening, non-judgemental and sexy. No do-me subs and no bullies.

We are a bouquet of dedicated, female supremacist Mistresses

We genuinely enjoy subverting masculinity and gender roles. We appreciate the service and eagerness to please of a submissive man. We cherish and pamper our boys and spoil our cock & strapon sluts… in our own, relentless, dominant way. You are treasured human toys that make our lives as Mistresses more fun.

if you have questions we have tried to answer all of them here, but feel free to email me:

Our FAQ Page .

And last but no least:

YES, WE WELCOME NERVOUS OR INEXPERIENCED NEWBIES.

We welcome newbies: you may be at the stage where you’ve been fantasising yourself silly, but still a bit daunted by the prospect of attending a real life party, with real life horny, rampant sluts and demanding Mistresses. Email me or any other of the Mistresses attending and tell us that it’s your first time. We will talk to you, receive you separately if needed, and make sure that your integration into the fun is gradual and fun. We want you to have fun. And we want to have fun with you, and at your expense too.


Slut Bed of Shame withdrawal symptoms

I just received this email from Slut A, who wrote this glowing testimonial after attending The Grand Slutathon for the first time. Read and wonder at how much he regrets not being able to attend the June festivities of the flesh – this is the effect that my slut parties have on my romping boys. You can almost see the tears running down the dainty tip of his dick. Because a month without a Slut Bed of Shame is like a garden without flowers:

 

Hi Mistress Tytania

Just wanted to say that my week is feeling empty and hollow knowing that there’s a Slutathon on this Wednesday and I can’t make it.

It’s funny how you build up your nerves to put your name down for something like the slutathon, and it takes some faith imagining others will be there with you who you don’t know.  But it’s amazing how a few days or weeks after you start to feel empty (literally!) and just wish you could go back to one of many moments that pops into your fantasies, fantasies now merged with reality.  So I just wanted to say I will be thinking of you as I sit in my meeting away from London. 

Roll on July when I hope to be able to attend again 🙂

Slut A


The Grand Slutathon – Stop lurking!

We are a group of very experienced London Dommes, dedicated to help straight and bi boys, explore their deepest fantasy… boy on boy sluttery.

I can’t possibly keep track of the visits that The Grand Slutathon & Slut Bed of Shame pages receive; the amount of emails that lead nowhere, that I receive and reply to; the care I put in answering the questions and hesitation of so many men, who fantasise endlessly about Forced-Bi, boy on boy action, total surrender to their slutty self, under the eyes of expert Mistresses: Rebekka Raynor, Ms Slide Rules You , Ms Theda Vamp, and other guest Mistresses and Dommes, past and present.

After almost 6 years organising this kind of party honestly, I’ve lost the sense of time with this one), I am confident that I know and understand the mind of the straight men who partake or wish to partake, in such non-normative activities. My friends and colleagues and myself have been encouraging sluts to cultivate their inner boy sluts, and the Grand Slutathon has evolved accordingly. We know that a casual, light femdom soiree start is the way to go. We know how to make you chill and lose inhibitions, and how to build up to a frenzy of desire and anticipation. The secret is in starting easy and teasingly. You can’t everything you want all at once. You have to be made to miss it, to want it, to long for it. instant gratification of your desires is not our policy.

We like the afternoon to progress, from light banter and femdom play, to the Grand Finale of ames and slut Bed of Shame. or you can stop after the Strapon Tea party if so you wish, and leave the dimly lit boudoir for the more adventurous chaps, who are by now gagging for a bit of cock in their mouths.

I am positive that i have created a party, The Grand Slutathon, where all boy sluts can discover and express their inner boy whores, in a creative, complicit and fun environment, without rush or pushing. Forced bi, boy on boy action, is a huge fantasy for many straight men, but also, one that has to be explored with care and sensitivity. also, with dedicated filth in the mind (mostly on the Mistresses’ minds).

So what are you waiting for? You have been lurking, reading, watching, asking questions then timidly dissappearing form my radar. But the fantasy hasn’t gone away. it never will. So come along, drop us an email and we might make some room for you at the next Strapon Tea party, or the Slut Bed of Shame. The Grand Slutathon is for you, filthy boys. Click on the links for more info, forthcoming dates, and to wetten that appetite!


Slutahon May 14th – WE BROKE THE SLUT BED OF SHAME!

Yes, it’s not an exaggeration or a metaphor: my randy sluts, sweaty and wriggling on the Slut Bed of Shame… and it broke with a loud crack! That was not excuse to stop though, and they carried on gyrating, sucking and poking in a boy meat daisy chain of lust, till the very end.

Here are two replies that I received this morning in my inbox, from two still dazed slut guests:

“Dear Mistress Tytania
I just wanted to send a quick email to say I thoroughly enjoyed yesterday’s party. 
Please extend my thanks to both Ms Theda and Rebekka (and apologise for me not saying good bye to her before leaving).
I think my arse will need a while to recover! But what a great afternoon it was. 
I am not sure how much I really enjoyed the boy on boy action – I think things become blurred between reality vs fantasy but I wanted to try new things so that’s not a complaint in any way, more a reflection over night. I’m sure my thoughts will develop over the next few weeks as it’s funny how you fantasise about things, then reality seems slightly different but then you keep coming back the fantasy again but with now bits of the reality intermingled (if that all makes sense!)
Anyway, it was great to meet you all yesterday and thanks again.
Look forward to the next one!

A.”

“Dear Mistress,

Well what a fabulous event! I’d like to thank Yourself and the  Mistress’ Rebekka and Theda.
I enjoyed it tremendously and I hope you all did to!
I look forward to the next one I can make.
Kind regards,

R.

PS Sorry about the bed!”

Skingirl – skinhead fetish

I’ve had a skinhead fetish since I started going to my first fetish clubs, in my early twenties, and they were gay leather clubs and bars. I found the skinhead look a real turn on: the way gay culture had appropriated this msot masculine, butch subculture, and turned it upside down, into a gay icon. As gay culture has done with all male subcultures and looks.

When it comes to the women, I specially love the way skinbyrds, skingirls or rennies, look so androgynous and stylish. I confess to being avery popular woman when I turn up at regular fetish clubs in braces, Doc Martens boots and severe chelsea cut. And I love a man who appreciates such an un-lady like look in a woman.

 With Ms slide & a grovelling skingirl / punk Mistress fanboy

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Why you need a dedicated email to contact Mistresses

The title may sound too obvious to even deserve any elaboration, but this week I was shocked to discover that many, many, far too many of my past and present and potential clients, use their personal, family, or even work email address.

Last week I decided to open a Google+ account and to use its calendar facilities to organise the dates for The Grand Slutathon, and to invite potential interested parties. I approached some of these former cleients myself, using the email addresses and details offered by Google.

To my surprise, their full real names, location and other details come up, for all to see.  Some contacted me, asking tob e removedf asap, which I did. one of my cleints helped me through it to ensure from both sides, that this breach of anonymity by Google could be fixed. The only solution was to scrap the calendar events altogether and forget about Goggle+

I would like to find it unbelievable, but sadly, I don’t. However, I don’t know what possessed Google, when they thought that exposing personal details every time somebody interacts with an otherwise anonymous email address, was a good idea.

But what shocks me even more, is that these men who visit professional Mistresses,  use email addresses where they give their full names, and often, profession, work details,etc. Many use what looks like their main email address; some, use their work email address, where I can easily see the company they run or that they work for, their job description, etc. I don’t need nor want to know. What you do in your private life is irrelevant to me, I am only interested in the slut I meet in my studio. real life dissolves temporarily in my presence, and that’s the joy of Domination.

Please gentlemen. You expect utter discretion from a professional Mistress and I do my darnest to provide it. But discretion is one of those things that must perhaps start at home?

If you contact professional Mistresses, escorts, or other types of people or services that are frowned upon by society at large, that could perhaps put your job, your relationship or your privacy in danger, please have a dedicated email address. so to recap – never email nor access websites from:

– Work or family computer

– Work laptop

-Work tablet or phone

– Work email address.

– Personal email address

It’s basic common sense, but I’m shocked at how often this needs to be reminded.

Open a private email address and maybe purchase a separate SIM card for your phone. Do it. Do it now! And thank me later.


Hair Fetish boy’s first appointment at the Salon

Met a boy with hair fetish today. He was hard as soon as he walked through the door. His kink: everything hair related. To let go in the hands of a fetish hair grooming specialist and feel the buzz of the electric razor on is skin, while I whisper… “will I shave your eyebrows too or not? At least one!”

So I tied him to the barber chair and commenced. I played with my electric clippers, shaving my initials on his furry belly. Pubic hair came later, scrotum hair, then just a tiny, tiny, half inch wedge on his scalp. He was mine when I ran my fingers through his hair and scalp, down th neck, fingertips first, then my nails… I had to tie him to the suspension rigging so I could shave his underarm hair (shockingly hairy!), chest and belly. To access the furthest recesses of his rump, I had to handcuff him and bend him over the buggery bench. Buzzzz again with my clippers, and bum, sack and crack were smooth as a frog’s. I took the opportunity to insert a buttplug in his tight, but very yielding, arse. I guess the smooth skin made things glide in more easily. Back on the barber’s chair, buttplug in, erection glorious and indefatigable. I warned him that if he was allowed to cum, I was going to style his hair with his own cum. Into his ear, while shaving the wispy fluff on is neck. He didn’t last long. I couldn’t stop wondering after he left: how many boys have a tent in their pants while sitting at the hair salon? Do the lady hairdressers notice? Not many Mistresses cater for this kink. But if you are into all things hair and control, or are in dire need of a good body shearing, ahead cropping or a wet shave in the hands of an erotic, domineering specialist lady… have a look at   The Evidence: Click on the photo above to go to his freshly written testimonial The Salon For Enforced Grooming & Shaving, my latest venture into the less trodden paths of kink. All limits respected, but adventurous gentlemen always welcome to discuss their fantasies. Because no two kinksters are the same, no two session comparable.

Ms Tytania is a Lifestyle Mistress

Ms Tytania is a lifestyle Mistress. Her world involves everyday life and the people around her. She also has a quintaessentially feminine nature that loves being pampered, waited on and worshipped. Her feet, legs, buttocks and body, dressed in nylons, vintage lingerie and corsets, are a woman worshipper’s dream.


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50’s Pinup: gloves, nylons, satin…

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Mistress of the Erotic Art of Japanese Rope Bondage

Here is a tiny sample of what Ms Tytania is capable of doing with rope. As an accomplished Shibari Mistress, her rope bondage sessions are a feast for the eyes, the senses and the imagination.

Also as a blog entry: Submission in red: submissive boy hogtied in red rope, under my red leather DM boots.

 

View a full photo gallery of this Japanese Rope bondage suspension by clicking on the hyperlink or on the photo tryptich, above.

Planet Shibari: Ms Tytania boldly takes her securely, shibari – bound specimen where no rope bunny has been before.

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Hogtie, facesitting and suspension.

After hogtying my subject on the floor, I had to indulge in a spot of facesitting. It didn’t take much to persuade me that rope suspension was the next step towards his total helplessness and immobilization. Shibari does the job every single time!

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Japanese rope bondage and suspension in rubber.

Rope bondage, rope suspension… and shiny rubber!

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Two Mistresses in rubber, one male specimen and miles of rope.

Ms Tytania and a dominant friend enjoy an evening in, tying up a male slave in rope. Hogties, humiliation and a shibari feast ensues!

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Bespoke Kidnappings

When I started offering full, off the street kidnappings to very adventurous chaps, I knew I was part of a long history of providers of what is for many, a cherished dark fantasy. When I was at art college, I read about Brock Enright, a NYC artist who performed an arranged kidnapping as part of a live performance, and found himself innunated by emails from people who asked him if they’d kidnap them too. And how much would that cost. Being a struggling artist, he took up the opportunity and organized a very successful kidnappings for people who ere from the ones who felt an erotic frisson (I know those), to ladies who wanted to be locked up to lose weight. He’d tapped into a complex, but widely spread fantasy.

When I became a Pro-Domme, around the time when he was performing his bespoke kidnappings, I learned that being captured, held hostage and put to the test in captivity, was a hue turn on for many, too. For me, taking the role of predator and incarcerator, was dream come true.

I’ve always found this kind of power very exciting, because its the opposite of the age old image of the Dominatrix as a woman permanently locked in her own dungeon, or of she belongs to the perfumed classes, mollycoddled and flattered by slaves while she rests passively on velvet cushions. I’ve always preferred the image of a dominant woman, as woman of action. Lara Croft , rather than Anita Ekberg (even though I love both, for different reasons).

I also derive a lot of my ideas and preferences as a Domme from art, and I consider all my sessions and events an art performance. Try to prove me wrong, I’ll bore you to tears with my replies to the old: “yes, but is it art?”

UNDERGROUND FEMDOM is in a way my crossover version of Enright’s bespoke kidnappings from the early years of the decade. When I was at art college and read about him, i never imagined hat I’s find myself doing a very similar thing, in the name of Femdom. But life has proved me time and time again that it does indeed have a tendency to imitate art. Brock Enright says in and interview: “I’d rather live in a different world, but I don’t know what world that would be.”

I do. It’s the world that Ms Tytania has built. In my world, gentlemen get kidnapped off the streets of London by feral Femdom guerillas. And they thank them for the privilege. Because all art aspires at creating an alternative to the mundanity of Monday mornings.

Being kidnapped by a team of female predators, can be the most exhilarating form of D/s and power exchange that can be imagined.

Latest kidnapping and hostage video clips can be viewed on my members’ website, The Urban Chick Supremacy Cell. Join now!


Hogtie & tease session pictures

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… and big boy, suspended upside down 🙂

 


Ms Tytania – Media Coverage

If you would like to contact Ms Tytania for an interesting, respectful and ethical discussion of BDSM, Femdom, sexual rights and censorship, you can email or phone her using the details on her Contact page. She does not take part in documentaries, reality shows, gossip programs or other forms of entertainment that treat niche sexualities like a new type of freak show. However, insightful, intelligent interviews and approach will get her attention and the benefit of her articulate expertise in all areas of niche sexualities, to your project.

Ms Tytania is the producer of The Urban Chick Supremacy Cell, the first UK adult video studio to challenge successfully ATVOD‘s regulations that are suffocating the thriving, independent adult studios, and forcing the UK public to opt for to a mainstream form of porn that disrespect both women, men and a healthy, varied, respectful approach to human sexuality. She still helps other studios who may have been targeted by this unfair legislation. Email her if have been contacted by ATVOD and need expert help from specialised lawyers.

She is a tireless campaigner for freedom of sexual expression and the arts with Backlash UK and has spoken publicly at symposiums, conference and debates. she ahs presneted many papers on the subject of female sexuality, gender and feminism.

She is also a doctoral candidate at a Russell Group British University, specialising in female sexual domination, non-normative gender and feminism. Expect to address her as Doctor Tytania very soon.

She has been on the media, in interviews and written her own articles. Here is a small selection of her words and contributions to the current debate on UK porn regulations, in mainstream papers and TV programs:

 

Franke Mullin for VICE – Your favourite porn will soon be banned!

The Keiser Reprot, Episode 691 – Russia Today (Video)

Zoe Williams for The Observer: Bound and gagged: the women urging a repeal of the porn laws

The Independent: Web Dominatrix wins David and Goliath battle against online porn regulators.

On the Backlash UK blog – Dominatrix and performance artist beats online regulators.

Ms Tytania writes for anti censorship campaigning group Sex & Censorship: The Porn Ban is Our Clause 28

Even Perez Hilton had something to say about Ms Tytania too!

On Buzzfeed: Porn Stars talk about the UK Porn Ban Law

On Spanish newspaper El País: Spanish Dominatrix lashes out at new pornography legislation in UK

 

 

 


Tying girls up

Trussing ladies up is not a pastime I indulge in very often, preferring the challenge of burly boys who are not uncommonly twice my size… but on this sunny afternoon last summer, I indulgently demostrated my rope skills on a willing girlfriend…

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Bastinado session

Bastinado is the ancient art of caning the soles of the feet. Allegedly from the Spanish word “bastonazo” (hitting with a stick or rod), and invented, according to legend, by the Spanish Inquisition to extract confessions form their victims. It certainly suited my fiery Spanish temperament today, and bastinado slut M went home a happy boy. I added a spot of facesitting and nipple tease to stretch the already remarkable endurance of his leathery feet 🙂

The bastinado photo gallery can be viewed on my website.

Bastinado slut M, came to my studio with this ingenous home made bastinado contraption in his bag. It never ceases to amaze me the lengths that some subs will get to to enjoy their kink. and how crative they can be with it, too.

As endorsed by the Spanish Inquisition


50 Shades of Censorship

I was interviewed by Isabella Smith for an article on the 50 Shades phenomenon and hypocrisy, in light of the current wave of censorship. I am quoted on a few occasions, but the whole article is well worth a read:

“This movie is responsible for the most streamed trailer of 2014. At the height of its not-easily-understated popularity, the book on which it is based prompted a run on whips and handcuffs (and a 78 per cent increase in sales) at Ann Summers. This is not your ordinary V-day schmaltz.

Fifty Shades of Grey is a story about a 21 year old virgin falling desperately in love with a wealthy young entrepreneur with a “burning smoky gaze”, who proceeds to buy her a MacBook and a car, hoping to convince her she should sign away her ability to consent to being flogged, gagged and genitally clamped.

Funny then, that on December 2 last year, Parliament introduced the Audiovisual Media Services Act 2014 (AMSA), which banned UK studios from making porn depicting many of the sex acts that made 2012 the most saturated summer ever for the bikini bottoms of sun lounger bound, Kindle-toting mums.”

Full article here: 50 Shades of Censorship – Artefact Magazine, London.


An Interview with Zoe Williams – Full Transcript

This is the transcript of the whole interview I did with Zoe Williams in December 2014. My replies were used for an article published on The Guardian, but the full replies were of course much more involved on my part. Here is her piece: BOUND AND GAGGED: THE WOMEN URGED TO A REPEAL OF THE PORN LAWS, from December 5th 2014.

As is usually the case, media articles end up sing only a very small percentage of what you say. I thought that the whole text in its integrity deserved to be put in the public domain and added to the current debate on UK laws hat ban certain forms of sexual acts and clamp down on independent fetish film makers.

With permission from Zoe Williams. Thank you for your support and for being an ally.

-On these new rules: some people are saying they’re anti-women, can you give me your view on that? Do they seem to you to show a squeamishness around female sexuality that they don’t show around male?

These new rules do indeed focus on forms of sexual expression that are common among minority sexualities “AS” well as among women. They are all activities that undermine or question hegemonic notions, so prevalent in mainstream porn, that put male desire at the top of a sexual hierarchy.It shows a denial of female sexual power and agency. We’ve been told for the last few years, courtesy of the 50 Shades phenomenon, that now it’s ok for women to express themselves sexually… but only as long as they still respect traditional gender roles where women are subservient to men. In other words: being a spanking-loving nymphette is ok, but sexually dominant women are continuously misinterpreted, banalised and silenced in media and culture. The current legislation reinforces this cultural taboo.I think that the ATVOD executives must have been shocked and disgruntled like your archetypal Daily Mail reader, when they discovered this world populated by hundreds of femdom websites, specialising in the most niche sexual preferences, most of them produced by women. And that the female producers and performers behind this type of porn were enthusiasts, proud of their work and of their specialities. I have no doubt that after my website won its appeal to Ofcom, they must have thought: “right, we have to put those women back in their place”. To curb and tame this show of demonic, rampant, aggressive, female sexual energy that is Femdom (Female Dominance). ATVOD tried to bully me with sexual shame and fear, trying to make me believe that I was doing something that is dangerous and harmful for society (and for the children, of course). I don’t know any Femdom producer who is ashamed of what she does. We are, in general, very proud of our technical skills and our intuition to understand sexual desires that often dare not tell their name.

– To get a bit more background for the piece, the case you took on and won this year, did that cost you a lot of money? Were you awarded costs? Did you feel that it was a good outcome for you in the end? I’m surprised that the ruling for you doesn’t apply to other small porn studios, can you shed any light on that?

There wasn’t a court case. We simply appealed to Ofcom against ATVOD’s determination, that my website The Urban Chick Supremacy Cell was a TV on Demand service, comparable to, and in direct competition with, TV services like Netflix or BBC iPlayer. The UC-SC is an independent Femdom fetish video website, with over 12 hours of videos, and many photo galleries, that adults can access by subscription.There were no courts involved, but I decided to close down my website for over a year, with its subsequent loss of revenue, until things were resolved. Bear in mind that ATVOD’s way to make websites comply is through ATVOD’s notorious Rule 11 (quote):

i. BREACH OF RULE 11 (Harmful Material: protection of under-18’s) in relation to subscription material: COMPLAINT UPHELD

The breach constitutes an infringement of the statutory requirement set out in section 368E (2) of the Act which states that “If an on-demand programme service contains material which might seriously impair the physical, mental or moral development of persons under the age of eighteen, the material must be made available in a manner which secures that such persons will not normally see or hear it.”.

Under the pressure of being accused of deliberately exposing children to “harmful” material (even though the content is always hidden behind a paywall), many small indy studios like mine closed down. I have been an activist, campaigning with sexual freedom campaigners Backlash UK, since 2008. So I decided to fight back, to challenge this determination that I had to comply with terrestrial and online TV channels’ regulations. We used three solicitors, but some of them worked for us pro-bono, and others were paid thanks to donations from our supporters, many of them from the alternative, fetish and LGBTQ scenes and communities.

– Can you expand a bit on your point about internet freedom, that is, how you think these moves could reach into general freedom on the net?

I believe that, to quote [my solicitor] Myles Jackman, the adult industry is “the canary in the coal mine”. The government isn’t interested in the children nor in protecting vulnerable women. What they are worried about is of potential new Wikileaks, or of the future Edward Snowdens, because they are there, somewhere.That’s why these AVMS (Audiovisual and Media Services) regulations are so absurd. They serve no other purpose than to test censorship and to clamp down the free information exchange that is the internet. You won’t win voters by telling them that they can’t have a free internet, that its open access to knowledge is dangerous for us, peasants. But “think of he children” is a guaranteed crowd pleaser. The problem for our current rulers is that, with the child sex ring scandal at Parliament level looming over their heads, their former gullible voters have started to see through it all. We already know too much.And for the record: this legislation isn’t about specific ideologies. The Tories have approved this latest legislation, but it was the previous Labour Government that, in early 2008, passed the Section 63 of the CJIA 2008, aka the Extreme Porn Law. (Please check: http://www.backlash-uk.org.uk/the-law/). The conservatives appeal to family & tradition, the more liberal, to outmoded feminist ideas of women as victims of men, that should have died in the 80’s.

-What do you think is the most ridiculous thing about the new legislation?

That it is a legislation at all. The list of unconnected, gratuitious sexual activities banned make no sense at all, unless, as it’s the current consensus, you read them as a mysoginistic vision of female sexuality, written by school boys who are still scared of the girls. The chaotic, demonic female sexual energy must be suppressed at all costs! These are politicians, people in positions of power, who know nothing about the internet or about sex, for that matter.

– Did you feel that it was a good outcome for you in the end? 

Yes. I am a woman and a foreign immigrant in this country. I am used to be seen as the underdog, the pushover. ATVOD’s bullying tactics on their letters angered me. They want to cower you with shame and guilt. I didn’t expect such a resound victory of a little independent porn studio, against the state. But I also couldn’t foresee that solicitors and activists would rally to support me and offer their help. All they asked me was if I did mind that my real name would appear in the public domain. I am not closeted. My website, The Urban Chick Supremacy Cell, is, as well as a porn website, an art project where my concerns about sexuality, identity, gender and politics crystallised. I am very proud of what I do. I have a background in art, I went to art college. I think that I make porn because I went to Goldsmiths College. So yes, getting my baby back is the best thing that’s happened in a very long time.I’m surprised that the ruling for you doesn’t apply to other small porn studios, can you shed any light on that?OFCOM’s  ruling does not set a precedent, they’ll rule on a case by case basis. Which means that the studios who decide to fight back, will have to do it like we did, not knowing what would happen. I think that my ruling could have gone one way or the other. They decided that I was too small, but I was giving them enough of a headache. Our report challenging point by point why they were wrong or unlawful, was 11 pages long. Three of them were a reply from me to Pete Johnson. CEO of ATVOD who had had the temerity to suggest that my website, contrary to my claims, wasn’t art. That is what every art school kid wants: a platform to answer the aged,question: “yes, but is it art?” I gave him a 1,000 word essay on contemporary art tendencies.

– tell me a bit more about Backlash, what it campaigns for, how it works?

Backlash UK’s website

I started volunteering for Backlash back in early 2008, when the CJIA 2008 was passed, banning the possession of ‘extreme pornographic material”. My involvement in the fetish scene in London awoke my political conscience, and also reignited my interest in feminism. As a self-employed professional dominatrix, who, due to obsolete laws regarding brothels and ‘disorderly houses”, has to work alone, I have always relied on mutual aid and solidarity among my community, to survive. I think that sexual identity and self-awareness have been, for me at least, essential eye openers to the world around me and Backlash defend sexual freedom not only on the internet, but also in cases of work tribunal, family courts and other cases were people have bee discriminated against because of their sexual orientation. This new legislation discriminates against representations of minority or niche sexualities, such as Femdom or BDSM.

APPENDIX – About Backlash UK:

We are an all volunteer organisation made up of a few legal specialists and academics with an interest in free expression, as well as people who have experience working in sex work and porn production. It was started in 2006, to oppose the ban on ‘extreme pornography’ that was brought into law in 2009 and has helped organise the defence of people who have been prosecuted for engaging or watching consensual adult sex acts. In recent years, we have expanded our remit to those whose professional lives have been threatened by having their sex lives ‘outed’ to employers, be it for being as BDSM practitioners in their private lives or sex workers.

 


Enforced Wet Shaving at The Hair Fetish Salon

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Ms Tytania knows what women want: from stubbly, scruffy bloke who looks all right for his mates, to presentable, well groomed gentleman. A close wet shave at Ms Tytania’s Enforced Grooming & Shaving Salon – London’s first hair fetish salon.

Barberette videos on my members’ website, The Urban Chick Supremacy Cell: Barberettte By Day – Urban Chick At Night! 01.

Genital shaving and less conventional grooming videos, also on my members’ website: Off With Your Beastly Hair! Revolutionary Cock Shaving.


THE URBAN CHICK SUPREMACY CELL


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