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Inescapable extended captivity in rope bondage

Nothing brings me more pleasure than meeting other Japanese rope bondage & suspension fans who appreciate my art. Yesterday I had a Shibari slut round for a 4 hour rope abandonment in rope. The session was a combined one: 1 hour of rope suspension and bondage, plus 3 hours abandoned in secure hogties, a Japanese rope crab tie, genital bondage, a firmly inserted buttplug, and an abundance of predicament bondage to keep my specimen focused and alert. Here is the testimonial he just sent me. You can check out the types of abandonment in rope only or a combined sessions I enjoy, in my Shibari Captivity page. Enjoy the photos I took, with permission from my willing captive, while he was in my very capable hands.

“Thank you for an absolutely amazing session yesterday. It was everything I had hoped for and more. You are a total wizard with those ropes and the butt plug was a great accessory. I am only sorry my session was shortened a lbit because of my late arrival. My apologies again for my mix up. I would have been in seventh heaven to have remained your captive and at your mercy for many hours more. A dream for the next time I am in London.

You have asked for a testimonial.I would be happy if you want to post the above but if you want a more formal account in the third person here are some additional words:
Me Tytania has elegance and poise. She has a commanding presence and is a true Dominant. But above all, from the perspective of someone who craves inescapable bondage, she is an absolute wizard with ropes.
I had sought a session involving one hour of intensive shinari followed by 3 hours of abandonment in bondage. What followed was everything I had hoped for and more. 
Within minutes of arriving my arms and chest were bound, I was hooded and a butt plug and gag inserted (the ball gag remained in for my full session except for brief interludes when I was offered sips of water). And then followed some of the most amazing bondage I have experienced.
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I was suspended in a fiendish way which meant any movement by me pulled on my cock and balls. I was tied crouching on the sofa, again where movement had consequences for my genitals. 
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The abandonment portion of the session was just as good. A hogtie that lasted for goodness knows how long, all the while being hooded and gagged. For all that time I could barely move a muscle. Ms Tytania went about her usual business including at one point sweeping the floor around me. That was a wicked touch. And then an amazing crab tie where again I was left to contemplate my predicament which by that stage included uncontrollable drooling.
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For any of you who are seeking someone who can tie you with expertise, style and creativity Ms Tytania is that person. This Queen of the Faeries has everything you could hope for and then some more.
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Thank you Ms Tytania for such an intense and complete experience.”

A crawl-in closet cage in my Boudoir

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Been a bratty boy? Has Mistress lost patience with you? You need some isolation away time, caged in my closet cage under the clothes rack!

Inbuilt in one of my clothes and accessories wardrobes, there is a little, dark but surprisingly roomy, closet to hide bad sluts in. so while I’m doing my toilette, changing clothes, putting my rubber or my fully seamed stockings on… my sluts are frustratingly handcuffed, bundled and incarcerated in my crawl-in closet cage. Fancy an hour or two to calmly meditate and reflect on your many slutty sins? Or perhaps you’ve displeased me and you need to be discarded, out away like unwanted shoes? I have a place just for you…

More details on my caging and isolation sessions page.

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OVERNIGHT AND EXTENDED SESSIONS

Due to an enormous amount of enquiries, I’ve decided to offer some pilot overnight sessions. An overnight session starts in the evening, around 7 pm (exact time to be agreed on), and lasts until 10 am the morning after.An overnight session normally starts at 7 pm and finishes at 10 am, with a 7am sharp waking up call to be my toy! 15 hours at my beck and call. Tribute can be found in my contact page.

 

I’m also experimenting with extended, daytime, 6 hours sessions. You can check in at Tytania Towers from 10 am till 12pm, amuse me, serve me, be my toy and victim, my human guinea pig… and be released just in time for dinner… refreshed after a whole day in a world that only exists in your fantasies… and in my Canary Wharf Studio. Tribute in my contact page too.

 

Favourite activities for these sessions can include, but are not limited to: bondage, captivity, domestic servitude, entertaining my visiting dominant friends, enforced punishment and corporal punishment, interrogation; hypnotism practice; feminisation; enforced feminist indoctrination; caging; role play in many forms; and anything your saturated submissive mind and her wicked imagination can concoct. Normally, she will retire no later than midnight.  A £200 deposit is required. Email me to find out more: begandgrovel@mstytania.net

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THE SLUT BED OF SHAME

NEXT PARTIES: FRIDAY, NOV 17TH AND WEDS, DEC 13TH 2017.

GUEST MISTRESSES: Ms Tytania, Goddess Cleo, Mistress Rebekka Raynor and Ms Theda Vamp (of Pedestal House Mistress fame). More to be announced.

You turn up at an atmospherically lit apartment… ater introducing yourself to the Mistresses, you are lead into the master bedroom where a bunch of other boys are cavorting on the king size bed – groping, stroking, caressing, fondling, tasting, sucking, deep-throating real cock, hard for your male attention. The Mistresses sit around the bed, in the dimly lit room, and watch while you entertain them with your hardly contained boy horn.

The Mistresses all wear their finest and meanest strapons, because they can’t contain their desire to fuck and spit roast so many eager male pussies.

Later, a big bukkake scene will take place, all under the Mistresses’ orders and instructions.

This is real, unbound, uncensored, boy on boy slutty magic for the ladies’ viewing pleasure. Wish you were here?

This is a popular party. We run 2 in one afternoon and evening:

4-6pm / 7 – 9 pm.

Each party costs £200. You can attend the whole evening for £300.

Contact Ms Tytania for any enquiries and for payment details: begandgrovel@mstytania.net

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THE SLUT BED OF SHAME! Such an evocative name! How does it work?

Ms Tytania’s Slut Bed Of Shame – the perfect, fool proof Femdom recipe for this favourite variation on the Forced-Bi theme. What started as a side show at The Grand Slutathon, her legendary Multi Mistress London parties that focused on forced-bi, CFNM and Strapon action, became an event in its own right due to its immense popularity among men who identify as straight, alpha types, but who fantasise about indulging in cock worship and boy on boy action. The Slut Bed Of Shame, as its name suggests, is quite simply, a group of horny boy whores on a large bed.

The party starts at 4pm. The boys will be performing in 2 hour shifts. They can choose to attend at 4 or at 7 pm, and be dismissed 2 hours later, to be replaced by new, fresh but rampant sluts.

But how does Ms Tytania make this such a compelling party? and will it be right party for you, male specimen? Here is her recipe:

To make a Slut Bed of Shame you will need:

  • 8 sluts, naked
  • 1 – 2 Domestic boy or sissy maid
  • 4 Mistresses
  • 1 large, strong bed where sluts can writhe, rub and also, be tied at the ladies’ discretion.
  • Atmospheric light
  • Romantic music (optional)
  • Lashes of Prossecco

PREPARATION

Find a luxury boudoir in central London and invite your dominant girlfriends round for the afternoon. Preferably, of the kind who love to watch men perform boy on boy action for their viewing pleasure.

Bring a domestic slave, sissy maid or other type of quality service-oriented submissive specimen loaded with a crate or two of prossecco. Direct them to their corner to serve the ladies and tidy up the inevitable mess.

Summon the sluts and instruct them to strip for the ladies’ assessment and (dis)approval.

Command the sluts onto the Slut Bed Of Shame and order them to enjoy each other with their mouths and arses. Make them mingle and couple up in slurpy 69’s; tie some of them up and turn them into The people’s Whore; force them to roll on the bed en masse, rubbing against each other in a chaotic, sweaty, mass of erect male bodies; direct them how to please each other with their hand s and mouths, and ask for feedback and punctuation. A clipboard and pen is always a nice touch.

Drizzle them with baby oil and watch them wriggle, writhe and moan as they suck and stroke hard cock.

Demand to impress the ladies with an ornamental tableaux, a fountain of bukakke.

Play the Soggy Biscuit game and punish the last to cum with a man juice covered biscuit for his tea.

If there is a suitable bathroom in the venue, send the boys to lather and shower with each other. I’m specially fond of a good wet boy on boy show.

Punish slackers and do-me subs with a wank ban and watch them implode.

Finish by asking the by now exhausted, but frustratingly horny cock-hungry whores, to suck each other to completion or demonstrate their wanking skills ( many so called straight men are good at the former, and all are excellent at the latter).

Serve very hot and best enjoyed by the ladies with a glass of two of cold prossecco.


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In my East London studio: where traditional Femdom meets modern day female supremacy.


Slut Bed of Shame withdrawal symptoms

I just received this email from Slut A, who wrote this glowing testimonial after attending The Grand Slutathon for the first time. Read and wonder at how much he regrets not being able to attend the June festivities of the flesh – this is the effect that my slut parties have on my romping boys. You can almost see the tears running down the dainty tip of his dick. Because a month without a Slut Bed of Shame is like a garden without flowers:

 

Hi Mistress Tytania

Just wanted to say that my week is feeling empty and hollow knowing that there’s a Slutathon on this Wednesday and I can’t make it.

It’s funny how you build up your nerves to put your name down for something like the slutathon, and it takes some faith imagining others will be there with you who you don’t know.  But it’s amazing how a few days or weeks after you start to feel empty (literally!) and just wish you could go back to one of many moments that pops into your fantasies, fantasies now merged with reality.  So I just wanted to say I will be thinking of you as I sit in my meeting away from London. 

Roll on July when I hope to be able to attend again 🙂

Slut A


The Grand Slutathon – Stop lurking!

We are a group of very experienced London Dommes, dedicated to help straight and bi boys, explore their deepest fantasy… boy on boy sluttery.

I can’t possibly keep track of the visits that The Grand Slutathon & Slut Bed of Shame pages receive; the amount of emails that lead nowhere, that I receive and reply to; the care I put in answering the questions and hesitation of so many men, who fantasise endlessly about Forced-Bi, boy on boy action, total surrender to their slutty self, under the eyes of expert Mistresses: Rebekka Raynor, Ms Slide Rules You , Ms Theda Vamp, and other guest Mistresses and Dommes, past and present.

After almost 6 years organising this kind of party honestly, I’ve lost the sense of time with this one), I am confident that I know and understand the mind of the straight men who partake or wish to partake, in such non-normative activities. My friends and colleagues and myself have been encouraging sluts to cultivate their inner boy sluts, and the Grand Slutathon has evolved accordingly. We know that a casual, light femdom soiree start is the way to go. We know how to make you chill and lose inhibitions, and how to build up to a frenzy of desire and anticipation. The secret is in starting easy and teasingly. You can’t everything you want all at once. You have to be made to miss it, to want it, to long for it. instant gratification of your desires is not our policy.

We like the afternoon to progress, from light banter and femdom play, to the Grand Finale of ames and slut Bed of Shame. or you can stop after the Strapon Tea party if so you wish, and leave the dimly lit boudoir for the more adventurous chaps, who are by now gagging for a bit of cock in their mouths.

I am positive that i have created a party, The Grand Slutathon, where all boy sluts can discover and express their inner boy whores, in a creative, complicit and fun environment, without rush or pushing. Forced bi, boy on boy action, is a huge fantasy for many straight men, but also, one that has to be explored with care and sensitivity. also, with dedicated filth in the mind (mostly on the Mistresses’ minds).

So what are you waiting for? You have been lurking, reading, watching, asking questions then timidly dissappearing form my radar. But the fantasy hasn’t gone away. it never will. So come along, drop us an email and we might make some room for you at the next Strapon Tea party, or the Slut Bed of Shame. The Grand Slutathon is for you, filthy boys. Click on the links for more info, forthcoming dates, and to wetten that appetite!


Slutahon May 14th – WE BROKE THE SLUT BED OF SHAME!

Yes, it’s not an exaggeration or a metaphor: my randy sluts, sweaty and wriggling on the Slut Bed of Shame… and it broke with a loud crack! That was not excuse to stop though, and they carried on gyrating, sucking and poking in a boy meat daisy chain of lust, till the very end.

Here are two replies that I received this morning in my inbox, from two still dazed slut guests:

“Dear Mistress Tytania
I just wanted to send a quick email to say I thoroughly enjoyed yesterday’s party. 
Please extend my thanks to both Ms Theda and Rebekka (and apologise for me not saying good bye to her before leaving).
I think my arse will need a while to recover! But what a great afternoon it was. 
I am not sure how much I really enjoyed the boy on boy action – I think things become blurred between reality vs fantasy but I wanted to try new things so that’s not a complaint in any way, more a reflection over night. I’m sure my thoughts will develop over the next few weeks as it’s funny how you fantasise about things, then reality seems slightly different but then you keep coming back the fantasy again but with now bits of the reality intermingled (if that all makes sense!)
Anyway, it was great to meet you all yesterday and thanks again.
Look forward to the next one!

A.”

“Dear Mistress,

Well what a fabulous event! I’d like to thank Yourself and the  Mistress’ Rebekka and Theda.
I enjoyed it tremendously and I hope you all did to!
I look forward to the next one I can make.
Kind regards,

R.

PS Sorry about the bed!”

Skingirl – skinhead fetish

I’ve had a skinhead fetish since I started going to my first fetish clubs, in my early twenties, and they were gay leather clubs and bars. I found the skinhead look a real turn on: the way gay culture had appropriated this msot masculine, butch subculture, and turned it upside down, into a gay icon. As gay culture has done with all male subcultures and looks.

When it comes to the women, I specially love the way skinbyrds, skingirls or rennies, look so androgynous and stylish. I confess to being avery popular woman when I turn up at regular fetish clubs in braces, Doc Martens boots and severe chelsea cut. And I love a man who appreciates such an un-lady like look in a woman.

 With Ms slide & a grovelling skingirl / punk Mistress fanboy


Why you need a dedicated email to contact Mistresses

The title may sound too obvious to even deserve any elaboration, but this week I was shocked to discover that many, many, far too many of my past and present and potential clients, use their personal, family, or even work email address.

Last week I decided to open a Google+ account and to use its calendar facilities to organise the dates for The Grand Slutathon, and to invite potential interested parties. I approached some of these former cleients myself, using the email addresses and details offered by Google.

To my surprise, their full real names, location and other details come up, for all to see.  Some contacted me, asking tob e removedf asap, which I did. one of my cleints helped me through it to ensure from both sides, that this breach of anonymity by Google could be fixed. The only solution was to scrap the calendar events altogether and forget about Goggle+

I would like to find it unbelievable, but sadly, I don’t. However, I don’t know what possessed Google, when they thought that exposing personal details every time somebody interacts with an otherwise anonymous email address, was a good idea.

But what shocks me even more, is that these men who visit professional Mistresses,  use email addresses where they give their full names, and often, profession, work details,etc. Many use what looks like their main email address; some, use their work email address, where I can easily see the company they run or that they work for, their job description, etc. I don’t need nor want to know. What you do in your private life is irrelevant to me, I am only interested in the slut I meet in my studio. real life dissolves temporarily in my presence, and that’s the joy of Domination.

Please gentlemen. You expect utter discretion from a professional Mistress and I do my darnest to provide it. But discretion is one of those things that must perhaps start at home?

If you contact professional Mistresses, escorts, or other types of people or services that are frowned upon by society at large, that could perhaps put your job, your relationship or your privacy in danger, please have a dedicated email address. so to recap – never email nor access websites from:

– Work or family computer

– Work laptop

-Work tablet or phone

– Work email address.

– Personal email address

It’s basic common sense, but I’m shocked at how often this needs to be reminded.

Open a private email address and maybe purchase a separate SIM card for your phone. Do it. Do it now! And thank me later.


Hair Fetish boy’s first appointment at the Salon

Met a boy with hair fetish today. He was hard as soon as he walked through the door. His kink: everything hair related. To let go in the hands of a fetish hair grooming specialist and feel the buzz of the electric razor on is skin, while I whisper… “will I shave your eyebrows too or not? At least one!”

So I tied him to the barber chair and commenced. I played with my electric clippers, shaving my initials on his furry belly. Pubic hair came later, scrotum hair, then just a tiny, tiny, half inch wedge on his scalp. He was mine when I ran my fingers through his hair and scalp, down th neck, fingertips first, then my nails… I had to tie him to the suspension rigging so I could shave his underarm hair (shockingly hairy!), chest and belly. To access the furthest recesses of his rump, I had to handcuff him and bend him over the buggery bench. Buzzzz again with my clippers, and bum, sack and crack were smooth as a frog’s. I took the opportunity to insert a buttplug in his tight, but very yielding, arse. I guess the smooth skin made things glide in more easily. Back on the barber’s chair, buttplug in, erection glorious and indefatigable. I warned him that if he was allowed to cum, I was going to style his hair with his own cum. Into his ear, while shaving the wispy fluff on is neck. He didn’t last long. I couldn’t stop wondering after he left: how many boys have a tent in their pants while sitting at the hair salon? Do the lady hairdressers notice? Not many Mistresses cater for this kink. But if you are into all things hair and control, or are in dire need of a good body shearing, ahead cropping or a wet shave in the hands of an erotic, domineering specialist lady… have a look at   The Evidence: Click on the photo above to go to his freshly written testimonial The Salon For Enforced Grooming & Shaving, my latest venture into the less trodden paths of kink. All limits respected, but adventurous gentlemen always welcome to discuss their fantasies. Because no two kinksters are the same, no two session comparable.

Ms Tytania is a Lifestyle Mistress

Ms Tytania is a lifestyle Mistress. Her world involves everyday life and the people around her. She also has a quintaessentially feminine nature that loves being pampered, waited on and worshipped. Her feet, legs, buttocks and body, dressed in nylons, vintage lingerie and corsets, are a woman worshipper’s dream.


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50’s Pinup: gloves, nylons, satin…


Mistress of the Erotic Art of Japanese Rope Bondage

Here is a tiny sample of what Ms Tytania is capable of doing with rope. As an accomplished Shibari Mistress, her rope bondage sessions are a feast for the eyes, the senses and the imagination.

Also as a blog entry: Submission in red: submissive boy hogtied in red rope, under my red leather DM boots.

 

View a full photo gallery of this Japanese Rope bondage suspension by clicking on the hyperlink or on the photo tryptich, above.

Planet Shibari: Ms Tytania boldly takes her securely, shibari – bound specimen where no rope bunny has been before.

 

Hogtie, facesitting and suspension.

After hogtying my subject on the floor, I had to indulge in a spot of facesitting. It didn’t take much to persuade me that rope suspension was the next step towards his total helplessness and immobilization. Shibari does the job every single time!

 

Japanese rope bondage and suspension in rubber.

Rope bondage, rope suspension… and shiny rubber!

 

Two Mistresses in rubber, one male specimen and miles of rope.

Ms Tytania and a dominant friend enjoy an evening in, tying up a male slave in rope. Hogties, humiliation and a shibari feast ensues!

 


Bespoke Kidnappings

When I started offering full, off the street kidnappings to very adventurous chaps, I knew I was part of a long history of providers of what is for many, a cherished dark fantasy. When I was at art college, I read about Brock Enright, a NYC artist who performed an arranged kidnapping as part of a live performance, and found himself innunated by emails from people who asked him if they’d kidnap them too. And how much would that cost. Being a struggling artist, he took up the opportunity and organized a very successful kidnappings for people who ere from the ones who felt an erotic frisson (I know those), to ladies who wanted to be locked up to lose weight. He’d tapped into a complex, but widely spread fantasy.

When I became a Pro-Domme, around the time when he was performing his bespoke kidnappings, I learned that being captured, held hostage and put to the test in captivity, was a hue turn on for many, too. For me, taking the role of predator and incarcerator, was dream come true.

I’ve always found this kind of power very exciting, because its the opposite of the age old image of the Dominatrix as a woman permanently locked in her own dungeon, or of she belongs to the perfumed classes, mollycoddled and flattered by slaves while she rests passively on velvet cushions. I’ve always preferred the image of a dominant woman, as woman of action. Lara Croft , rather than Anita Ekberg (even though I love both, for different reasons).

I also derive a lot of my ideas and preferences as a Domme from art, and I consider all my sessions and events an art performance. Try to prove me wrong, I’ll bore you to tears with my replies to the old: “yes, but is it art?”

UNDERGROUND FEMDOM is in a way my crossover version of Enright’s bespoke kidnappings from the early years of the decade. When I was at art college and read about him, i never imagined hat I’s find myself doing a very similar thing, in the name of Femdom. But life has proved me time and time again that it does indeed have a tendency to imitate art. Brock Enright says in and interview: “I’d rather live in a different world, but I don’t know what world that would be.”

I do. It’s the world that Ms Tytania has built. In my world, gentlemen get kidnapped off the streets of London by feral Femdom guerillas. And they thank them for the privilege. Because all art aspires at creating an alternative to the mundanity of Monday mornings.

Being kidnapped by a team of female predators, can be the most exhilarating form of D/s and power exchange that can be imagined.

Latest kidnapping and hostage video clips can be viewed on my members’ website, The Urban Chick Supremacy Cell. Join now!


Hogtie & tease session pictures

… and big boy, suspended upside down 🙂

 


Ms Tytania – Media Coverage

If you would like to contact Ms Tytania for an interesting, respectful and ethical discussion of BDSM, Femdom, sexual rights and censorship, you can email or phone her using the details on her Contact page. She does not take part in documentaries, reality shows, gossip programs or other forms of entertainment that treat niche sexualities like a new type of freak show. However, insightful, intelligent interviews and approach will get her attention and the benefit of her articulate expertise in all areas of niche sexualities, to your project.

Ms Tytania is the producer of The Urban Chick Supremacy Cell, the first UK adult video studio to challenge successfully ATVOD‘s regulations that are suffocating the thriving, independent adult studios, and forcing the UK public to opt for to a mainstream form of porn that disrespect both women, men and a healthy, varied, respectful approach to human sexuality. She still helps other studios who may have been targeted by this unfair legislation. Email her if have been contacted by ATVOD and need expert help from specialised lawyers.

She is a tireless campaigner for freedom of sexual expression and the arts with Backlash UK and has spoken publicly at symposiums, conference and debates. she ahs presneted many papers on the subject of female sexuality, gender and feminism.

She is also a doctoral candidate at a Russell Group British University, specialising in female sexual domination, non-normative gender and feminism. Expect to address her as Doctor Tytania very soon.

She has been on the media, in interviews and written her own articles. Here is a small selection of her words and contributions to the current debate on UK porn regulations, in mainstream papers and TV programs:

 

Franke Mullin for VICE – Your favourite porn will soon be banned!

The Keiser Reprot, Episode 691 – Russia Today (Video)

Zoe Williams for The Observer: Bound and gagged: the women urging a repeal of the porn laws

The Independent: Web Dominatrix wins David and Goliath battle against online porn regulators.

On the Backlash UK blog – Dominatrix and performance artist beats online regulators.

Ms Tytania writes for anti censorship campaigning group Sex & Censorship: The Porn Ban is Our Clause 28

Even Perez Hilton had something to say about Ms Tytania too!

On Buzzfeed: Porn Stars talk about the UK Porn Ban Law

On Spanish newspaper El País: Spanish Dominatrix lashes out at new pornography legislation in UK

 

 

 


Tying girls up

Trussing ladies up is not a pastime I indulge in very often, preferring the challenge of burly boys who are not uncommonly twice my size… but on this sunny afternoon last summer, I indulgently demostrated my rope skills on a willing girlfriend…

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Bastinado session

Bastinado is the ancient art of caning the soles of the feet. Allegedly from the Spanish word “bastonazo” (hitting with a stick or rod), and invented, according to legend, by the Spanish Inquisition to extract confessions form their victims. It certainly suited my fiery Spanish temperament today, and bastinado slut M went home a happy boy. I added a spot of facesitting and nipple tease to stretch the already remarkable endurance of his leathery feet 🙂

The bastinado photo gallery can be viewed on my website.

Bastinado slut M, came to my studio with this ingenous home made bastinado contraption in his bag. It never ceases to amaze me the lengths that some subs will get to to enjoy their kink. and how crative they can be with it, too.

As endorsed by the Spanish Inquisition


50 Shades of Censorship

I was interviewed by Isabella Smith for an article on the 50 Shades phenomenon and hypocrisy, in light of the current wave of censorship. I am quoted on a few occasions, but the whole article is well worth a read:

“This movie is responsible for the most streamed trailer of 2014. At the height of its not-easily-understated popularity, the book on which it is based prompted a run on whips and handcuffs (and a 78 per cent increase in sales) at Ann Summers. This is not your ordinary V-day schmaltz.

Fifty Shades of Grey is a story about a 21 year old virgin falling desperately in love with a wealthy young entrepreneur with a “burning smoky gaze”, who proceeds to buy her a MacBook and a car, hoping to convince her she should sign away her ability to consent to being flogged, gagged and genitally clamped.

Funny then, that on December 2 last year, Parliament introduced the Audiovisual Media Services Act 2014 (AMSA), which banned UK studios from making porn depicting many of the sex acts that made 2012 the most saturated summer ever for the bikini bottoms of sun lounger bound, Kindle-toting mums.”

Full article here: 50 Shades of Censorship – Artefact Magazine, London.


An Interview with Zoe Williams – Full Transcript

This is the transcript of the whole interview I did with Zoe Williams in December 2014. My replies were used for an article published on The Guardian, but the full replies were of course much more involved on my part. Here is her piece: BOUND AND GAGGED: THE WOMEN URGED TO A REPEAL OF THE PORN LAWS, from December 5th 2014.

As is usually the case, media articles end up sing only a very small percentage of what you say. I thought that the whole text in its integrity deserved to be put in the public domain and added to the current debate on UK laws hat ban certain forms of sexual acts and clamp down on independent fetish film makers.

With permission from Zoe Williams. Thank you for your support and for being an ally.

-On these new rules: some people are saying they’re anti-women, can you give me your view on that? Do they seem to you to show a squeamishness around female sexuality that they don’t show around male?

These new rules do indeed focus on forms of sexual expression that are common among minority sexualities “AS” well as among women. They are all activities that undermine or question hegemonic notions, so prevalent in mainstream porn, that put male desire at the top of a sexual hierarchy.It shows a denial of female sexual power and agency. We’ve been told for the last few years, courtesy of the 50 Shades phenomenon, that now it’s ok for women to express themselves sexually… but only as long as they still respect traditional gender roles where women are subservient to men. In other words: being a spanking-loving nymphette is ok, but sexually dominant women are continuously misinterpreted, banalised and silenced in media and culture. The current legislation reinforces this cultural taboo.I think that the ATVOD executives must have been shocked and disgruntled like your archetypal Daily Mail reader, when they discovered this world populated by hundreds of femdom websites, specialising in the most niche sexual preferences, most of them produced by women. And that the female producers and performers behind this type of porn were enthusiasts, proud of their work and of their specialities. I have no doubt that after my website won its appeal to Ofcom, they must have thought: “right, we have to put those women back in their place”. To curb and tame this show of demonic, rampant, aggressive, female sexual energy that is Femdom (Female Dominance). ATVOD tried to bully me with sexual shame and fear, trying to make me believe that I was doing something that is dangerous and harmful for society (and for the children, of course). I don’t know any Femdom producer who is ashamed of what she does. We are, in general, very proud of our technical skills and our intuition to understand sexual desires that often dare not tell their name.

– To get a bit more background for the piece, the case you took on and won this year, did that cost you a lot of money? Were you awarded costs? Did you feel that it was a good outcome for you in the end? I’m surprised that the ruling for you doesn’t apply to other small porn studios, can you shed any light on that?

There wasn’t a court case. We simply appealed to Ofcom against ATVOD’s determination, that my website The Urban Chick Supremacy Cell was a TV on Demand service, comparable to, and in direct competition with, TV services like Netflix or BBC iPlayer. The UC-SC is an independent Femdom fetish video website, with over 12 hours of videos, and many photo galleries, that adults can access by subscription.There were no courts involved, but I decided to close down my website for over a year, with its subsequent loss of revenue, until things were resolved. Bear in mind that ATVOD’s way to make websites comply is through ATVOD’s notorious Rule 11 (quote):

i. BREACH OF RULE 11 (Harmful Material: protection of under-18’s) in relation to subscription material: COMPLAINT UPHELD

The breach constitutes an infringement of the statutory requirement set out in section 368E (2) of the Act which states that “If an on-demand programme service contains material which might seriously impair the physical, mental or moral development of persons under the age of eighteen, the material must be made available in a manner which secures that such persons will not normally see or hear it.”.

Under the pressure of being accused of deliberately exposing children to “harmful” material (even though the content is always hidden behind a paywall), many small indy studios like mine closed down. I have been an activist, campaigning with sexual freedom campaigners Backlash UK, since 2008. So I decided to fight back, to challenge this determination that I had to comply with terrestrial and online TV channels’ regulations. We used three solicitors, but some of them worked for us pro-bono, and others were paid thanks to donations from our supporters, many of them from the alternative, fetish and LGBTQ scenes and communities.

– Can you expand a bit on your point about internet freedom, that is, how you think these moves could reach into general freedom on the net?

I believe that, to quote [my solicitor] Myles Jackman, the adult industry is “the canary in the coal mine”. The government isn’t interested in the children nor in protecting vulnerable women. What they are worried about is of potential new Wikileaks, or of the future Edward Snowdens, because they are there, somewhere.That’s why these AVMS (Audiovisual and Media Services) regulations are so absurd. They serve no other purpose than to test censorship and to clamp down the free information exchange that is the internet. You won’t win voters by telling them that they can’t have a free internet, that its open access to knowledge is dangerous for us, peasants. But “think of he children” is a guaranteed crowd pleaser. The problem for our current rulers is that, with the child sex ring scandal at Parliament level looming over their heads, their former gullible voters have started to see through it all. We already know too much.And for the record: this legislation isn’t about specific ideologies. The Tories have approved this latest legislation, but it was the previous Labour Government that, in early 2008, passed the Section 63 of the CJIA 2008, aka the Extreme Porn Law. (Please check: http://www.backlash-uk.org.uk/the-law/). The conservatives appeal to family & tradition, the more liberal, to outmoded feminist ideas of women as victims of men, that should have died in the 80’s.

-What do you think is the most ridiculous thing about the new legislation?

That it is a legislation at all. The list of unconnected, gratuitious sexual activities banned make no sense at all, unless, as it’s the current consensus, you read them as a mysoginistic vision of female sexuality, written by school boys who are still scared of the girls. The chaotic, demonic female sexual energy must be suppressed at all costs! These are politicians, people in positions of power, who know nothing about the internet or about sex, for that matter.

– Did you feel that it was a good outcome for you in the end? 

Yes. I am a woman and a foreign immigrant in this country. I am used to be seen as the underdog, the pushover. ATVOD’s bullying tactics on their letters angered me. They want to cower you with shame and guilt. I didn’t expect such a resound victory of a little independent porn studio, against the state. But I also couldn’t foresee that solicitors and activists would rally to support me and offer their help. All they asked me was if I did mind that my real name would appear in the public domain. I am not closeted. My website, The Urban Chick Supremacy Cell, is, as well as a porn website, an art project where my concerns about sexuality, identity, gender and politics crystallised. I am very proud of what I do. I have a background in art, I went to art college. I think that I make porn because I went to Goldsmiths College. So yes, getting my baby back is the best thing that’s happened in a very long time.I’m surprised that the ruling for you doesn’t apply to other small porn studios, can you shed any light on that?OFCOM’s  ruling does not set a precedent, they’ll rule on a case by case basis. Which means that the studios who decide to fight back, will have to do it like we did, not knowing what would happen. I think that my ruling could have gone one way or the other. They decided that I was too small, but I was giving them enough of a headache. Our report challenging point by point why they were wrong or unlawful, was 11 pages long. Three of them were a reply from me to Pete Johnson. CEO of ATVOD who had had the temerity to suggest that my website, contrary to my claims, wasn’t art. That is what every art school kid wants: a platform to answer the aged,question: “yes, but is it art?” I gave him a 1,000 word essay on contemporary art tendencies.

– tell me a bit more about Backlash, what it campaigns for, how it works?

Backlash UK’s website

I started volunteering for Backlash back in early 2008, when the CJIA 2008 was passed, banning the possession of ‘extreme pornographic material”. My involvement in the fetish scene in London awoke my political conscience, and also reignited my interest in feminism. As a self-employed professional dominatrix, who, due to obsolete laws regarding brothels and ‘disorderly houses”, has to work alone, I have always relied on mutual aid and solidarity among my community, to survive. I think that sexual identity and self-awareness have been, for me at least, essential eye openers to the world around me and Backlash defend sexual freedom not only on the internet, but also in cases of work tribunal, family courts and other cases were people have bee discriminated against because of their sexual orientation. This new legislation discriminates against representations of minority or niche sexualities, such as Femdom or BDSM.

APPENDIX – About Backlash UK:

We are an all volunteer organisation made up of a few legal specialists and academics with an interest in free expression, as well as people who have experience working in sex work and porn production. It was started in 2006, to oppose the ban on ‘extreme pornography’ that was brought into law in 2009 and has helped organise the defence of people who have been prosecuted for engaging or watching consensual adult sex acts. In recent years, we have expanded our remit to those whose professional lives have been threatened by having their sex lives ‘outed’ to employers, be it for being as BDSM practitioners in their private lives or sex workers.

 


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